Thursday, June 15, 2006

Just reminding ...

. Pride - An excessively high opinion of oneself; conceit..
. Delusion - A mistaken or unfounded opinion or idea..
. Self-centeredness - Engrossed in oneself and one's own affairs; selfish.

A close fren used those words to describe me. A fren who has chosen to forget all about our years of frenship, thru the ups and downs. I can't say anything in defence, cos there is truth to the descriptions. Just reminding myself to think more for others.

20 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

tell your close friend to fly kite.

here's my interpretation:

1. Pride - you have an innate need to prove yourself, and that need stems from zi bei

2. Delusion - your experience in life, or the type of people you have met, might be limited to only a particular social strata. coupled with being headstrong, you temd to form opinions that goes against conventional wisdom.

Note: conventional wisdom is not equivalent to the truth. its simply herd mentality. people who don't suscribe to herd mentality must accept that they'll be classified as "delusive". just be mindful of your own "delusions" so that you won't form unfounded opinions.

3. Self-centeredness - are you? who dare say they're not selfish? it's only whether they're frank with themselves and others, and let it show outwardly.

Good to remind yourself to think more for others, but don't get overly worried what your close friend said.

I think you are a good person :)
take care girl

6/15/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

clap clap*

jus be yourself.

if you dun like the environment you're in, change it, or change environment.
i care about u

6/15/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In the deepest corner of my heart
Much as I hate to admit it... i want to forget and live simply
I love you just the way you are
can u forgive me ?
r u ok?

B.

6/15/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Para ser amado hay que ser adorable" segundo dizem nuestros hermanos.
Essa reacção é mais Amor-ódio, ou então...se não a podes ter pica-a onde é mais sensivel.E "ele" sabe bem quanto és humana e sempre pensas nos outros primeiro, o que aliás te dá alguns dissabores.
Miuda, sou sempre um amigo pronto a dar-te um ombro. Ouviste E ????
Muitos beijinhos

6/16/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Estás bem E ???
Diz qq coisa por favor.Nâo percebi muito bem onde estás e as noticias são preocupantes.
Beijokas miúda rebelde.

6/17/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Opá o vertigem não me deixa comentar.Aqui vai um abraço e desejo de continuação de boas férias para ele.espero que leia isto.

6/17/2006  
Blogger a mota do pai said...

My dear E. just arrived, and try to catch up your last post´s. I´ll be here in a couple of hours.

Yours A.

6/17/2006  
Blogger a mota do pai said...

Yankee?? ru there??

6/17/2006  
Blogger a mota do pai said...

As we walk our path of life,
We meet people everyday.
Most are simply met by chance.
But, some are sent our way.

These become special friends
Whose bond we can't explain;
The ones who understand us
And share our joy and pain.

Their love contains no boundaries.
So, even we are apart.
Their presence enhances us
With a warmth felt in the heart.

This love becomes a passageway,
When even the miles disappear.
And so, these friends, God sends our way,
Remain forever near.

6/17/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Leio o teu blog todos os dias, mas prefiro não comentar e a razão pq desta vez o faço é justificável.Pareces diferente da pessoa que em tempos conheci, segura, forte,alegre e com vontade férrea de viver.Deixas-te ir abaixo com frequência e dás ouvidos a injustiças vindas de supostos amigos.TU NÃO ÉS ESTA E...!!!Onde está a miúda que saltou comigo na Empuriabrava, do surf na Ericeira, do mergulho em Sagres?que desafia o mundo sempre com um sorriso e se desfaz de obras de arte para ajudar miudos desfavorecidos num qq ponto do planeta ??? ONDE ESTÁ A AMIGA que sempre influenciou positivamente o nosso estado anímico?

A QUEM A VIR POR AÍ,UM PEDIDO URGENTE: MANDEM-NA DE VOLTA AO PÔR-DO-SOL DE LX.ELA SABE ONDE SEMPRE A ESPERAM...

6/19/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Beijinho pa ti que és um modelo de MULHER a seguir.
Invejo (admito q é feio) tudo akilo q representas.

Força amiga !!!!!!!

(^-^) :)

6/19/2006  
Blogger a mota do pai said...

Por tudo o que me deste a conhecer de ti, mandava esse "amigo" aos 3o metros com barbatanas de chumbo.TU ÉS UMA PESSOA ESPETACULAR E!!!!E ninguem me convence do contrário e já viste que somos muitos a dize-lo e só um a contradizer, por isso ganhamos nós. não vou descansar enquanto não falar contigo miuda.

kiss

6/19/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Não dizes nada princesa...estou triste...ONDE TÁS???

6/19/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My apologies...bonbon :(
i need u...pls fgv me. ill try to contact u again hoping to have a chance to esplain or make amends...im an idiot...
love u

Brian

6/20/2006  
Blogger Snow said...

Miss Blue! Que se passa contigo?

Tenho andado a tratar da viagem e não tenho conseguido aparecer por aqui... Gostava muito de falar contigo antes de partir...

Estive a ler o teu blog e fiquei preocupado miuda... espero que saibas que tens aqui um ombro amigo!

Amanhã deve ser a ultima vez que tenho oportunidade de aparecer por aqui... pelo menos durante algum tempo :)

Mas sempre que tiver oportunidade durante as paragens da viagem venho espreitar este teu cantinho. Vai continuando a deixar aqui noticias tuas ... OK princesa? Eu tentarei fazer o mesmo ;)

Mts mts mts beijinhos... e da proxima vez que aqui vier quero sentir-te bem mais animada!
(e de preferência, quero saber que já te encontras em terras lusas... volta e vai tomando conta das minhas ondas na Ericeira :P)

6/20/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

AH BOM!!!
Finalmente acordou e viu a estupidez que fez contigo, por acaso calculei q fosse ele o causador disto tudo.O q não sei é se o perdoas :) ai ai esse coraçãozinho de manteiga vai fazer o q^?
Miguinha linda tenho tantas saudades tuas...nem sabes quanto!!
VOLTA DEPRESSA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pedido urgente: ATENDE O TELM PLEASE!!!!!

6/20/2006  
Blogger Hannanur said...

"If you sacrifice your own growth and talent for love, you absolutely will not find happiness."
I feel it is also important not to lose sight of pursuing your own personal development.To me, love should be a force that helps us expand our lives and bring out our potential with fresh vitality.
A healthy relationship, in my view, is one in which two people encourage each other to reach their respective goals, while sharing each other’s hopes and dreams.
A relationship should be a source of inspiration, invigoration and hope.
Love is not two people gazing at each other, but two people looking ahead together in the same direction.

6/20/2006  
Blogger Hannanur said...

From the heart...Thks to all for your support words.

6/21/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amiga hoje joga a selecção contra o Mexico, fala lá c os deuses ok?

Beijinhos docinho.

depois digo o resultado à minha menina.

6/21/2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bonbon

I am not even sure what to say today.
I am hurt and angry and sad. I just wish you could be here with me.
To take care of each other forever.
Everything changed so fast and inpersonal I don't know what to do. I can't think I can't function. I am so lost I feel I will never find my way again.

Missing you so much tonight... All I want in this life is to be beside you

I love you sugar, more than my life... more than my world. You are my world. Life wouldn't be life if it was not shared with you. We may be far away from each other for now, but you have my heart and soul
I love you... more and more every day. With each passing day I know that I have gotten one day closer to spending the rest of my life with you
But, I fucked it up and have no one to blame but myself
You just seemed so sad. I dont ever want to be a reason for your sadness.
Please come back to me.
I miss you more than is fathomable
And I love you with all that I am .

Brian

6/22/2006  

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